This is a small, private instance for my (Dave's) friends and family. Hopefully rules won't matter but I firmly believe that explicit is better than implicit so here we go.
Code of conduct is simple: be awesome to one another. That means:
No bigotry of any kind. Including, but not limited to: racism, homophobia, transphobia, anti-semitism, ableism, classism. I will absolutely take that shit down and if I have to do it on more than one occasion I will be liberal with the ban-hammer.
No harassment. If someone indicates a conversation is over, leave them alone. If they indicate they don't want to hear from you any more, stop contacting them.
Use the content warning feature. It's there for a reason. If there's even a remote chance that someone might not want to see what you're posting, apply a CW. This includes suggestive content, nudity, porn and other NSFW content.
Don't try to sell us stuff. We're your friends, here for socialization and conversation - not a resource to be commodified.